Unfortunately, the line "I wouldn't offer if I wasn't capable of helping," doesn't work, you don't know how heavy this box actually is. Biting off more than you can chew really. I've accepted help in the past but they have not realized quite how incapable of helping they were.
Therefore it is selfish, especially when you know the load can affect others.
I'm also in a better position to fullly understand the weight of the box. You are not.
Analog Horror advice column. I love it. I suffered from severe depression about ten years ago. I asked people to help carry the box. Nobody wanted to help, I lost all of my friends. Am still rebuilding. But guess what? I made it through, am stronger for having survived and have WAY better friends now.
No matter HOW bleak it looks, it WILL get better. It may take time, it may not feel like it but you WILL get there. The night is always darkest just before the dawn.
I'll take the advice, hate to be a burden to someone else but I guess I could share some of the weight, even if it's a little and let my dearest ones support me ❤
Oh my god, I burst into tears when you said there might be a day when I can't carry it anymore and you don't want that to happen. Thanks for the video 🤍
IDK i just got out of a situation where someone vastly overestimated their ability to hold the box and then DID end up resenting me. really hard to trust after that shit
Anytime anyone has peeked into my "box" they were like … I don't even k ow what to do with this … or I don't have the enrgy to deal with this. Only my eldest son has asked probing questions when I gave him hints (like why don't you like grandpa & grandma & I answer "they know what they did"). I give him answers like "not everyone thar seems nice is actually nice" or "not all parents put their children 1st, or love them fully". He doesn't understand at all bc he's only known supportive, loving parents. But he tries & says he wished I had more loving parents. My husband just wants to sweep everything under a rug & not address anything negative in my past or in our relationship. It's about as effective as you'd imagine it to be.
Oof. I really needed this. I've felt the lowest I've ever been lately, and those are all the excuses I tell myself for why I'm not reaching out to people for help.
one of my friends is like this and i always feel guilty about opening up to them bc i feel like it's such a heavy burden to deal with 🙁 i really hope they dont hate me for that
Chapeau!❤
I wish you joy and happiness and peace and love
love the concept
Unfortunately, the line "I wouldn't offer if I wasn't capable of helping," doesn't work, you don't know how heavy this box actually is. Biting off more than you can chew really. I've accepted help in the past but they have not realized quite how incapable of helping they were.
Therefore it is selfish, especially when you know the load can affect others.
I'm also in a better position to fullly understand the weight of the box. You are not.
Analog Horror advice column. I love it.
I suffered from severe depression about ten years ago. I asked people to help carry the box. Nobody wanted to help, I lost all of my friends. Am still rebuilding. But guess what? I made it through, am stronger for having survived and have WAY better friends now.
No matter HOW bleak it looks, it WILL get better. It may take time, it may not feel like it but you WILL get there. The night is always darkest just before the dawn.
I saw that box and thought MONO FROM LITTLE NIGHTMARES 😲
I'll take the advice, hate to be a burden to someone else but I guess I could share some of the weight, even if it's a little and let my dearest ones support me ❤
I’ve seen this video before and it was just unnerving now i’m having a rough spot as a completely different meaning
This video helps
Wow. I didn’t know I would cry this much over a short.
Lmao how is thia creepy?
Crying in the club rn bc my trauma box is the size of Mt. Everest
Do you ever hold your breath for a few seconds so you aren’t able to hyperventilate or freak out?
Imma send this to all my friends so they too, realise we can all share a burden to keep us less heavy <3
Thank you for this message!
Oh my god, I burst into tears when you said there might be a day when I can't carry it anymore and you don't want that to happen.
Thanks for the video 🤍
Stanzi is an professional therapist
Remind me ❤
Aw sweet
It's like a high school PSA, but it's so full of heart. Im smiling so freaking hard right now.
Why am I scared
This will actually help.so.many boomers tho
What is this genre?
Thats just wholesome and beautiful ❤
IDK i just got out of a situation where someone vastly overestimated their ability to hold the box and then DID end up resenting me. really hard to trust after that shit
I… how could you?!?! I wasn’t ready😂🫣😅
Anytime anyone has peeked into my "box" they were like … I don't even k ow what to do with this … or I don't have the enrgy to deal with this.
Only my eldest son has asked probing questions when I gave him hints (like why don't you like grandpa & grandma & I answer "they know what they did"). I give him answers like "not everyone thar seems nice is actually nice" or "not all parents put their children 1st, or love them fully". He doesn't understand at all bc he's only known supportive, loving parents. But he tries & says he wished I had more loving parents.
My husband just wants to sweep everything under a rug & not address anything negative in my past or in our relationship. It's about as effective as you'd imagine it to be.
Oof. I really needed this. I've felt the lowest I've ever been lately, and those are all the excuses I tell myself for why I'm not reaching out to people for help.
i think if i talk ill not only be a burden but ill also be cringe so i checkmated myself
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one of my friends is like this and i always feel guilty about opening up to them bc i feel like it's such a heavy burden to deal with 🙁 i really hope they dont hate me for that
Freelancer and Gavin be like
Fuck i almost cried